Racism in speed dating
This sexualised reductionism is, concurrently, a form of sexual racism.
According to some estimates, more than 20 million people per month use online dating services. Baker points to four factors that indicate what makes for a successful relationship online: (1) meeting place, where they first encountered each other online; (2) obstacles, barriers to getting together overcome by the couples, such as distance and previous relationships; (3) timing, period spent writing or talking before meeting offline, and how intimate they became before meeting offline; and (4) conflict resolution, ability of the people to resolve problems in communication (Baker, Cyber Psychology & Behavior. None of the factors Baker identified point to race, nor is this the focus of her research.
I made some beginner’s mistakes; however, I am not alone in having struggled with speed dating.
Racism in online dating is a sad reality that we all face.
We would hope that in a world so advanced that we can instantly communicate with millions of other single people our biases would shrink.
Unfortunately this is not yet the world we live in though there are some online dating sites, like those found on our , that do better than others.
Last year online coupon company Groupon hosted the world’s largest speed-dating event, with 414 attendees crammed into a restaurant in Chicago.
This installment covers attraction by using Ok Cupid’s Quick Match score.Being an optimist, I am part of the solution, not part of the problem, I hope to contribute positively to the world I live in by caring about people. AS A PSYCHOLOGIST, I have always found the concept of speed dating fascinating.Very energetic & fun loving, loves outdoors, travel, politics, music, latin dancing, theatre, movies (big cinemaphile), sports, dedicated to gaining knowledge and expanding my world.