Dating harder smart people
You're on this website because you were either born a smart person (which as you will see by the end of this article is actually not such a You will understand some of the vexing problems that you have, up to this point in your life, failed to beat with your smarts and intellectual resources. We had a 1 hour conversation about smart people problems in Podcast #26, give it a download!For each problem we identify solutions; both actionable behaviors to change and deeper mindsets to internalize. The girl I met a midst the suds aggressively thrust me into her social group.You’d make adjustments if you alienated your co-workers and wanted to feel better from 9-5 every day. And a big reason you struggle to connect with men is because you’re so bright. Like many of you, I’m a bit of an intellectual snob.
When one person is significantly more independent than the other, the relationship is going to become messy. Loving is arguably the most important thing people do in life, but we don’t teach our kids how to do it properly.
The more you understand love and your role in it, the harder it is for you to find romance. In order to fall in love, you need to feel that you love.
It becomes more complex, more intricate and MUCH more delicate. The more intelligent we become, the less there is to wonder.
That's what compelled me to write What compels me to write this article today is a recent trip to the Harvard-Yale Game festivities, reminding me of how smart, educated women routinely sabotage their own chances for romantic fulfillment.
Because, as fabulous as these ladies are, all of their failed relationships have one thing in common: themselves.A smart woman wants to date a smart man, since men less intelligent than her frankly bore her to tears.She wants to be able to hold a stimulating conversation with her partner and to know that he's at least equal to her (if not better) in this department.I need, nay, the intellectual engagement, and legions of smart, educated men feel similarly.